If you study metaphysics at all, you know that whenever you create something you simultaneously create its opposite.
Nothing could be more evidence of that then when We try to make a positive change in our lives.
As soon as we decide to go on a diet, we get invited to a party with lots of awesome food.
As soon as we decide to stop complaining, new obstacle spring up.
This is not unexpected or problematic.
It is actually part of the process. To change you have to face the obstacle and rise above it.